AnThILrAsEn's CoRnEr 

Dressing up sexy is the reason why more raping cases happen???

Is this reason why raping cases happen?? dressing up sexy? Well i think for all the psycho out there its not bout dressing sexy. too be more precise studies have showed tht the rapist are more interested to go for gurls who dont dressed sexy coz they have this mentality to know whats behind the covered dress/outfit. . what do u think??

Is it ok to tell about your past to your current boy friend/girl friend?

Hmm I have a question here? "Is it ok to tell about your past to your current boy friend/girl friendas asked by a close friend of mine. well i have my own perspection on this but I would like to noe generally what is the rest think bout it.

In my point of view, its better not to talk about a person's past . Past is past. what is matter now is the current n the future. everybody have their own privacy, dark secret n stuff tht they really dont wana talk bout it. whats the point you want to talk bout their past wen you really love them. what matter now is how are they towards you in this very current relationship n for the future. people do mistakes my dear. If you really love them look for what they are now now past. there are some people who realise their mistakes n they could be the best partner for you. simply because u understand them and give them the confidence that they can rebuild a relationship.relationship is all about give n take.

Do not judge them by their past or keep on pin pointing bout it if you happen to noe bout their past. this will actually affect your relationship tho you  think you r just joking bout it. every individual must have their own P& C no matter its a girl or a boy.certain thing u need to tell but certain is better to leave like tht. but this doesnt mean u can lie to ur partner. be honest n loyal..

what bout you guys out there. any comment??

You're not a gurl..not yet a woman

Heart Broken

I dunno how to pour my feeling, to whom I should share. being in love was the sweetest thing u can imagine but being out of it is the worst. How i wish i can be with the person forever tho i noe its gonna be a compromise relationship then.

wer did I went wrong. To love a person so much n getting blame for little things. I noe I dun deserve this but can u understand how i feel when u actually leave me without saying anything. wer have u been. all the while being a gud buddy to me even wen we r not in a relationship. at least a gud farewell. i feel so pain...

cant do my work.. feel so down..

Bharathanatyam

I remember the day I actually wanted to learn dance. That was few years back when one of the temple comittee invited one of the great dancer to the temple for a performance. The way the guy ( Dance Master)dance was so gud and I was actually mesmerised by his dance, the gestures and abhinaya(facial expression). I always ask my mom to actually gimme the permission to dance, but she refuse. The reason being is its too late to learn.

The interest that i have was very strong that I actually went to that Master and get his contact number. when I came here to further my studies, i actually contacted him and start joining the class.I was excited to join. I was told to get some fruits, flower, coconut and etc for the "Guru Darshana". This is to show your appreciation towards the Master.

yatho hasta thatho drishti;
yatho drishti thatho manah;
yatho manah thatho bhava;
yatho bhava thatho rasa.

The first day was real tiring. He is also a strict master.i used to travel very far and even got beaten by the master coz i actually stop moving my leg. I was so tireed!!!yet i dun blame him coz he is doin his job.

I stopped my dance class after doc had advice me to take a rest due to my health condition. well now I want to cont back my dance. I just cant wait to start my dance :)  >>>> Thaka Dhimmi thaka Dhimmi thakitha thakitha... tharikitha thom  ... :)

Control your anger!!!

   I just dont understand why sometimes u have to show ur anger to everybody.All of us have our own anger but we dun show it unnecessary. You can be angry but think twice before u actually say things. Words that u have use had hurt alot of people around you. We just be quiet not because we dunno what to talk but we think before we actually say things.When you are angry you expect people to actually noe that you angry.

  You are being sarcastic as well. Whats wrong with ur brain!!! By u doing all this do u think that people actually love that. How old are you??you are not too old neither young to complain that you actually dunno what you doin. Well m very sure that you will say that you are being frank. You can. We never stop you from being frank. thats a gud thing . dun la be like laser. Didnt you actually learn in school that you can tell to people in a nice way ?

    Are you actually having some personal problem or communication problem? Why showing you face to all? if you cant control you anger than do some meditation. Probably this can help you to make your mind in peace.You should understand that the world is small. whatever you do here will help the rest to "promote" your attitude to all and this will not only affect you but also your career.

I was a bull headed person before and now i am very very proud to say that i have changed a lot. Tho i'm not perfect  but at least i dun hurt people around me with words like you use. Small matters can be solved but why are you making it a big fuss.you need to noe how to tolerance. Do not order people to do this and that. All of us are not your SLAVES.DOnt raise your voice to others simply..Try to understand the rest.

I had enuf of  you hurting not onily me but also the rest.

PrIvAcY

               What is privacy means to you?? Privacy is is the ability of an individual or group to seclude themselves or information about themselves and thereby reveal themselves selectively.is the ability of an individual or group to seclude themselves or information about themselves and thereby reveal themselves selectively. This is what I understand after  going thorough the internet. Its not that I dont understand what privacy means but was wondering whether people around me understand the meaning of  privacy.

                Do I actually need to tell u each and everything about my whereabouts, what am I doing, with whom I'm going?Listen,I am not a SMALL GIRL . I am big enough than you, to make my own decision. if its wrong or bad, I will noe the consequences. You dont need to worry for me. If you are sincere just do me a favour,please do not interfere in any of my business. Did I actually come into your way, then why should you?? Are you being paid to ask this ans that about me???Unless I feel its necessary and appropriate for me to share then I will and at that time if you are interested or not, I respect it too. Human Rights.. 

                Just because I didnt tell you where am I goin and you are showing face to me. Please dont be ssoooo childish.Sometimes think about others by being in their shoe. Did I ask anything about you or not ??? Unless you tell , I listen and give some advice which I feel better. To follow or not to follow its up to you. I am not your parents to control you. You should think. I respect your privacy and why dont you do the same too. Like the malay proverb  " Jangan jaga tepi kain orang ". Hope you understand what this means.

                Sometimes I feel so disappointed that I cant have my own privacy. You can oni talk or advice but not to control me fully. If you think I cant handle things or what so ever, you should actually tell me in proper way but not in a way to control me into your way. Who are you to do this anyway!!!Certain
things its better to keep to yourself .. I'm tired of having people invading my privacy. Hope after this I wont have to repeat on privacy..